Ladies, Here are Things You Need To Keep Your Marriage Strong.

It will be a very good thing if most ladies can read this piece and know that it will be extremely helpful for them as it will help them keep their man and enjoy marriage the way it should be:

A good cook:
I can not stress this enough. If you know how to cook your man’s favorite food and I mean you really take time out to ask him what his favorite is and you go out of your way to learn the act of preparing such food in the best way he likes for him whenever he wants it then you have secured him.

S*xual delight:

I am not talking about your past but a woman who is sexually decent with her hubby and does not give room for the hubby to point an accusing finger at her is a delight to every man. A man gets turned on even more with the mindset that he is the only one having access to that honey comb but a s*xually indecent woman is a curse to herself and the husband.

Be his personal private Love-peddler:
Don’t be deceived,every man wants his wife to be a sex-maniac for him in the bedroom and the more timid you are the greater the chance of losing him so give him real good in the bedroom and zip him down when he least expects it and blow that trumpet so good and make his head spin and trust me, he will run home to you everyday.

The most boring thing any woman can do is to always wait for her hubby to demand for s*x “ooohh how boring” please develop the act of giving him first attack and scr*w the poo of him after-all he is your hubby and if you don’t do him well, who will?

Financial independence:
Your husband should not be your sole financial plan. Please if you are a “full housewife” reading this i guess its time to free yourself from that. get something doing no matter what and even if you are not allowed to do an office thing just try and get something doing because nothing trips a man than a financially independent lady even if you don’t spend a dime on the home front,the fact that you have something doing that brings home money is good enough. And for those who play to their hubby’s gallery of sit at home order,be ready to be mocked by same man when there is a tilt in his emotional balance.

Humility:
Its so s*xy to have a sweet humble lady who is non abusive to her hubby and his family, a humble woman will be full of respect and adoration for her hubby and even people around her and its very difficult for any-man to do away with a humble non abusive woman.

Fear of GOD:
A woman who fears GOD is a delight to her entire household and she will be a strong pillar for her husband and family. Her ways will be pleasing to GOD and apparently pleasing to her man.

If you are a lady who possesses these 6 attributes even without a child for him yet please relax yourself and don’t bother about any lady snatching your husband. Yes if he is the randy type he may freestyle these attention seeking side chics but he will always run back to you and it will be extremely difficult for any daughter of eve to snatch him from you.


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Must Read: Here’s Why Young Ladies Are Getting Married To Old Men

Once a lady is brought up without her
parents inculcating the virtues of discipline
and hardwork in her, just any one will
climb her, so long as she will get money
from the escapade. But it goes beyond that.
From the times of old, the kingdom of love
suffereth emotional violence and only
sharp babes take it by force. A new
marriage culture seems to be taking place
in Nigeria. It has been discovered that
younger women preferred marrying older
men who are advanced enough to be their
fathers and this virus is catching on fast.
When the late Owelle of Onitsha and first
President of the Federal Republic of
Nigeria, Dr Nnamdi Azikiwe, in his late
ages declared his intention to then marry
his youngest wife, Uche, a member of the
renowned Afikpo traditional dance named
'Nkwa Nwite' which entertained him when
he visited Afikpo, Nigerians cried blue.
Reason was because of the age difference.
Zik was then in his 70s while Uche was
barely 16 years. The marriage took place
and today, the rest they say is history.
In 1989, it was publicized that Bianca
Odumegwu-Ojukwu was dating the late
former Biafran Head of State and Ikemba
of Nnewi Chukwuemeka Odumegwu
Ojukwu, a political associate of her father.
Ojukwu who was alleged to be over thirty
years her age later married her. By early
1990s, Bianca Onoh, became Bianca
Odumegwu-Ojukwu.
Not done, Shade married business mogul
Okoya Thomas when she was 18 years in
2002. Later, there were reports that ex-
beauty queen; Susan Hart is 'reportedly'
married to Chief Sunny Kuku.
72-year-old Nigerian billionaire, Emmanuel
Iwuanyanwu, a politician, statesman and
Chairman of the Champion Newspaper,
created controversy after getting married
to a girl almost 50 years his junior and tied
the proverbial nuptial knot with 26-year-
old Frances Chinonyerem Enwerem in a
traditional ceremony that took place in
Owerri, Imo State, Capital. The wedding
comes two years after Iwuanyanwu, lost
his wife Eudora Iwuanyanwu, to cancer.
Frances is reported to be the daughter of
one of Iwuanyanwu's late wife's close
friends.
Trailing behind Iwuanyanwu in this new
marriage culture is Emeka Offor,
businessman and a contractor from
Anambra State. Ofor reported to be in his
sixties secretly took another wife. He
performed the traditional rite for the
marriage of a 24-year old girl as the fourth
wife. The ceremony took place at the
residence of the father of the bride,
Alexander Okey Ufondu, at Umuezeopi in
Oraifite, Ekwusigo Local Government Area
of Anambra State. The bride named
Adaora lives with his husband in the
highbrow district of Maitama in Nigeria's
Federal Capital Territory of Abuja.The
wedding generated ripples in the religious
communities of Oraifite, the hometown of
both Mr Offor and his new father in law,
Mr Ufondu, an Onitsha-based trader.
Why are young women marrying older
men who are old enough to be their
Fathers age mates? Lailas Blog spoke with
Nigerians of diverse persuasion and their
responses are detailed below:
Onyanwe Aku Uche attributes it to poverty.
According to the student of Abia State
University, it's money and status only.
Uche is of the view that such marriages
lead to adultery and promiscuousness
because, he believes that the old men
cannot be able to s*xually perform their
bed responsibilities.
According to him, no marriage survives
without s*x even though they enjoy such
marriages, the girls are accused of
pretending in such marriages.
"This is strictly for the money, does she
want to call it love? Why will the children
support such a marriage? Marriage
counsels said such marriages doesn't last
because the death of the man nullifies such
marriages and the young girl would now
go and marry the young ones they love
with the late old man's money.
Oluokun Stephen stated that all the essence
is for money, status and security. When
there is money, women will marry
anything inside trouser, it is obvious that
such girls will be getting s*x elsewhere."
But a lady disagrees.
Anna Unachukwu: "We unfortunately
want to create a kind of civilization that
has no basis for rationality, and who told
you that old men cannot have s*x? Is she
complaining that her man cannot satisfy
her s*xually? You forget that men's urge
for s*x still lives with them even when they
are eighty but it is not the same for women
when she reaches menopause.
Have you ever slept with an old man and
found him incompetent? Many ladies who
marry people not old enough to be their
fathers still go in the closet to use dildos
and Romance-Machines. Is your
understanding of marriage only based on
s*x? Where is companionship?"
Sociologist, Chinedu Ukwu blamed Nigeria
economy for such marriage. He was of the
view that if the nation's economy should
improve where the girls could get job and
take care of themselves, most of the older
men would be rejected when they
approach most of these girls for marriage.
Another funny angle tongue
Clare Okpala said that it serves the old men
right. She said that such girls are on
revenge mission to what some boys have
done to their older female lovers. She said
that the young ladies perch on the oldies
for their money and would dump them
when they have gotten what they want.
"Serves the older perverts right, for
marrying women young enough to be their
daughters/ granddaughters."
Ladies, should you marry on right
priorities or simply because of money and
greed? There are consequences for
whatever option you chose; both good and
bad. The ball is on your court.

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Doctor warns parents not to kiss their kids on the lips "it's sexual"

An American doctor has sparked a fierce debate online after she suggested that parents shouldn't kiss their child on the lips at all because it could be 'confusing'.
Dr Charlotte Reznick, a child and educational psychologist at Californian university, UCLA, gave a quote to The Stir .She said: 

"If you start kissing your kids on the lips, when do you stop? It gets very confusing.""As a child gets to 4 or 5 or 6 and their sexual awareness comes about (and some kids have an awareness earlier - as when we notice they start masturbating at 2 or 3 sometimes - they just discover their private parts and it feels good),the kiss on the lips can be stimulating to them." "Even if that never occurs to a child, it's just too confusing! If mommy kisses daddy on the mouth and vice versa, what does that mean when I, a little girl or boy, kiss my parent on the mouth?

Her comments have sparked a huge debate as some agree and others do not!  

So? What's your view, you're free to use the comment box.

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Ladies: He Is Not Perfect [Must Read]

Hi guys, I wanna share a topic I hear lots of girls say when am in public places which is “My Boyfriend is perfect”…lol, No honey, He’s not! In life, we cn’t have it all or rather we cn’t have a perfect man. For example: you ask a girl, what she needs in man or her ideal man, and this is what you hear *throat clears*
1. He must be handsome
2. He must be rich
3. He must be God fearing
4. He must be tall
5. He must be smart
6. He must know how to cook
7. He must be good in bed
8. He must have a very good job eg oil company
9. He must have a big house on d island
10.He must be Honest

11. He must be intelligent
12. He must be caring
13.He must be a good listener
14. He must be faithful
15. He must be confident.
15. He must be Romantic.
And so much more,in my entire life, I have never seen a man with all this characteristics….



Lemme make an illustrations : Handsome + Rich + Good cook + Caring +Faithful+ God Fearing + Good Manners = Impossible. My darling ladies believe me or not this is not possible, the exceptions are very few that is 1% out of the remaining 100%….something will be missing in my equations, to be honest we cn’t have them 10/10.
It’s either he is Rich and Ugly with Good manners
Or
He is Rich, Handsome and very Proud
Or
He has everything but he is not God fearing
Or
He has Everything but he is a woman beater.
In Everything we do we should learn to seek Good first ( Matt 6:33).
Am not trying to say there are no good men, we have a lot but what am trying to say is that you cn’t find all you want in a man and vise-versa.
The Basic requirement I think a woman should look for in a man should be
1. A God Fearing Man: This is the most important requirement any woman can ask for, there is nothing like a man who fears God…. When I say a God fearing Man, I mean it and not the one who just wears his DOLCE & GABBAN A suits and sit in church and comes back home to beat you for not cooking for him. A God fearing man is a man who fears God, who appreciates you, who tells you how much he loves you ,Who will do everything within his power to make you happy, the one who will always take you to God when ever you turn ur back from him. That is a God fearing man.

2.  Pls ladies, I wanna correct something, if ur man is the type that whenever he beats you or gets in a fight with you and instead of apologizing he prefer to buy gifts that is not genuine, he is only doing that to shut ur mouth up… I tell my friends that “it’s better for me to drive in my Camry pencil light happily than to drive in my Range Rover with a black eye”. I will want to marry a comfortable man that will give me peace than to marry the one who will always brag and beat me join.. Ladies pls and pls choose wisely.

3. A COMFORTABLE MAN: My dear sisters, who doesn’t want a rich man, if I tell you I dn’t want a rich man, I will be lying from d pit of hell… But I think it’s better if u marry someone comfortable, if you see the one who is already rich then it’s your luck, but if you are dating someone is Smart, Ambitious and is doing well for himself then I feel there is no biggy because he will go higher…

Some ladies are not married today because they are waiting for Dangote’s son, Adenuga’s nephew or Otedola’s brother….my dear all these men also started from somewhere and if am correct they were not this rich when they met their wives….there is nothing wrong with a man who is comfortable so that when you are married to him 2maro and one very funny relation of his comes to say rubbish, you can stand and tell that person the story of his life.

Then again we should also know the source of our boo’s, boyfriends, husband’s Money because these days people are doing so many things to get money, when they ask you, you will say he is doing business not knowing he might be dealing in drugs, he might be doing YAHOO (419) or he is a ritualist, Abeg ooo, always ask…

This are the basics and other things can fall into this requirements above.. My Lovers ( ladies) if You are looking for an Ideal man, this 3 requirements should be the first before you start asking for a tall man, pointed noise, 600 packs etc.. Please choose your men wisely and make sure you talk to God concerning any decision you make.
Any Relationship that makes you cry, pls my love quietly come out of it because some girls think it will be better in marriage ahhha, my sister Na Lie, it will be worst…leave him and his money, if that’s what you are there for , the Lord that opened that door will definitely open another one…(Let it go – T.D jakes)
So to all my Cinderellas who say their Prince Charming is perfect I laugh in Chinese because there is nothing like a perfect man, we can say we have good boyfriends or good husbands, we can make them to be better men through the help of God.

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18 year old girl almost died of suicide after boyfriend dumped her

This 18 year old girl (pictured above in hospital) drank half a bottle of sniper (a popular insecticide) after her boyfriend, pictured above with her, ended their relationship.

 According to Aisha Yesufu who shared the story on twitter, she said the young girl is currently on admission and that doctors say her heart has now been affected by the poisonous substance. The supposed boyfriend who jilted her had to be called in and is seen in the photos consoling her.
This is not a joke o, and its not a movie neither.

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Why go through life without a meaningful relationship?

You used to feel safe sharing your hopes, dreams and demons, but not anymore. did you know lack of trust in others represents an immature ego.

When trust is holding you back from fostering deep connections with someone you care about, you constantly feel nobody understands you, when you don’t trust others you are depriving yourself of human connection and authentic living. Maybe you used to feel safe sharing your hopes, dreams and demons, but not anymore.

And did you know lack of trust in others represents an immature ego that hasn’t developed resilience and frustration tolerance. You have to build trust in yourself before you can trust another. Follow this 10 ideal to help you build your trust

• Recognize that all humans are comprised of “good” and “bad” parts. In other words, we’re flawed beings.
• Accept your dark, unsavoury, and primitive parts. Change what you can, and accept that you will never be fully evolved.
• Work on tolerating strong, intense emotions like distress, hostility, rejection, intimacy, and love.
• be conscious of projecting those feelings externally because you don’t want to deal with them.
•  Leave your past betrayals behind. Resist the urge to dwell on those who have wronged you, and refuse to let these experiences get in the way of fostering healthy relationships now.
• Manage time. Trust means suspending instant gratification. While waiting for a call, a job offer, a favour, or an answer, lean into the downtime. Instead of defaulting to controlled substances, incessantly texting another person, or going into panic mode, find healthy ways to keep your mind occupied.
• Know that the world is basically a safe place, and believe in the inherent goodwill of others.
• Learn to accept that when someone betrays or compromises your trust, you can withstand uncomfortable feelings of rage, rejection, hurt, and uncertainty. You will not fall apart and self-destruct because you haven’t thus far.
• Forgive yourself for projecting onto others and for lashing out. We’ve all been there, done that.
•  Realize others cannot “get” you if you don’t get yourself.

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Check Out Beautiful Official Photos From Jockey DJ TTb's Wedding

Here is the photo album from Nigerian celebrity disc jockey DJ TTB’s  weddinhg.



He tired the knot with Gwendolyn Nebedum on Saturday the 11th of July which took place in Abuja.

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Six Women Rape Man To Death In Benue State

His fame and financial breakthrough pushed him into having up to six wives. His love for sex equally contributed to his patronage of the most beautiful girls in Ugbugbu Owukpa, Ogbadibo Local government area of Benue State where a man who was identified as Uroko Onoja was allegedly raped to death by his 6 jealous wives in the early hour of Tuesday.
Trouble started on tuesday morning, precisely 3 am when Uroko returned from Ochanja, a popular joint in the small community of Ugbugbu and headed to the room of his youngest wife. The other wives who according to the youngest wife, Odachi had a meeting before Uroko returned home invaded her room with knives and sticks, demanding that their husband have sex with all of them at once. Uroko who resisted their attack was overpowered by the women who ordered that the sex march begin with the youngest wife and to continue in that order to the top.

Our correspondent reported that Uroko stopped breathing when the fifth woman was making her way to the bed. “Suddenly, my husband stopped breathing, and they all ran out, still laughing, but when they saw that I could not resuscitate him, they all ran into the forest.
Uroko whose body has been deposited in a nearby Mortuary was until his death one of the famous persons in the village. According to most young people in the community, he was a philanthropist who had contributed positively to the growth of the community.
When contacted, the village head, Mr. Okpe Odoh affirmed that the matter had been reported to the police and investigation was ongoing even as the youth of the community are helping the police in search of the escaped wives.

As at the time this report was filed, 2 of the wives have been arrested.

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Meet The Man That Wedded 2 Wives A Day

Known for his tough lectures, popular Islamic scholar-cum-preacher Sheik Muyideen Bello has a mantra – speaking truth to power. And he is fearless about it. In one of his lectures titled Legal Marriage, Sheik Bello spoke about why a man should marry more than one wife.

In his words, “Allah said a man should marry any kind of woman he likes. As a man, if you want to marry a fair-complexioned or dark woman, marry her. Allah said we should start from 2 women.

"I know some women will not like to hear this. If you have to marry, start with 2 women, that is what the Quran says. The Yorubas have a saying that a man with 1 woman isn’t a real man.

"For instance if you are married to 1 wife and she over-salts your food, you have just 1 wife. You don’t have a choice than to eat the food or buy food outside.

“I have received so many messages from people that why should I encourage polygamy. I tell them, is it me encouraging polygamy? Allah said you should marry 2, 3, 4. Allah said if as a man you know you can’t take care of them, then marry 1.

"Then if you are a me-and-my-wife kind of man, the implications are too many. As Muslims, 4 women is the maximum a man can have, have 2 living with you then if you have 2 houses outside, you put the other 2 there. The implications in marrying just 1 wife are too many.”

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Photos : Is This A Real Love Engagement Or An Embarrassing One?

Guys, Come and See Love oh...
Are you kidding me? This is serious!
If your heart is pure, you will do things that small minded folks can't even imagine possible. #LoveWin

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Photos from A Nigerian wedding in Austria that got everyone talking

Some photos from a Nigerian wedding between Uwadiea Osawaru, the President of the Dons of Europe, a Nigerian association and his wife Maureen which took on June 27th in Austria. Members of the Dons of Europe are well known for their lavish spraying of money during any of their functions and this was not an exception as they sprayed dollar bills in reckless abandon. See more photos from the wedding after the cut...

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Pregnant Married Woman caught having sex with Her Secret Lover

You are married and claim to be pregnant for your husband but you are still
engaging in "monkey play" with another man secretly? Why are some ladies
like this? How long do you think your jazz will last?
Getting a good woman to marry these days is not something you can do purely
on LOVE. The lady you are in love with or her family could have a devilish
agenda that may upset your peace or even worse. Carry your matter to God,
be sure that lady you want to marry is not unto you with a scam.
If you are a good man, watch and pray... be careful for your own good. A word
is enough for the wise!

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Woman Locks Her Vagina Cos Husbands Didn't Give Her Money For Market

Lmao, a woman was arranged in the court of law by her husband for locking her private parts. The woman who complains of her husband to not giving her money for bills said, "nothing will make her unlock it until her husband decides to her request.
If you happen to be the man, what will you do?

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